Journaling for Self-Care & Mental Clarity: 5 Ways to Get Started

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There are many ways to practice self-care, but in recent years, more and more people have been adding journaling to their self-care routines. I’ve been a personal growth blogger and coach for over a decade, and journaling for self-care has profoundly impacted my life. That’s why I’m so excited to introduce you to the practice. 

Let’s face it: life is sometimes chaotic and stressful. Journaling offers a quiet space away from the daily hustle, a place where you can pause, reflect, and connect with your deepest thoughts and feelings.

At its heart, journaling is a dialogue with yourself. For me, it has been an anchor in tumultuous times and a means of deepening my self-awareness. The clarity that comes through my personal exploration via journaling is invaluable.

When you journal for self-care, you’re not just keeping a record of your days; you’re embarking on a journey of self-discovery, uncovering insights and patterns that lead to a deeper understanding and inner peace.

Today, I’ll share five simple ways to weave journaling into your self-care routine. These methods aren’t just about putting pen to paper; they’re about creating a personal haven where honesty, reflection, and creativity can thrive. 

Whether you’re curious about how to get started journaling or looking to deepen your existing practice, I am hopeful you will find these strategies as rewarding and transformative as I have.

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Benefits of Journaling for Self-Care

There are several benefits to incorporating journaling into your self-care routine, including:

  • Outlet for Emotional Expression: It provides a safe, private space to express emotions, helping to lighten the heart and clarify the mind.
  • Avenue for Mental Clarity:  You may find that some concerns or dilemmas you’ve been confused about are clearer as you allow adequate space and time to achieve mental clarity.
  • Stress Reduction: Actively writing about your experiences and concerns can significantly lower stress levels, making challenges feel more manageable. (A study published in the National Library of Medicine confirms the value of expressive writing for stress reduction).
  • Enhanced Self-Awareness: Regular journaling encourages introspection, leading to greater self-understanding and personal growth.
  • Improved Problem-Solving: Writing about problems can offer new perspectives, making solutions more apparent and accessible.
  • Memory and Mood Boost: Keeping a journal can improve memory and mood by offering a positive outlet for processing thoughts and feelings, fostering a sense of achievement.

Journaling Is Private Time Just for You

Journaling isn’t just about chronicling your day; it’s a dialogue with your deepest self. It’s like turning soil in a garden; as you dig through your thoughts and emotions, you unearth insights and understandings buried under everyday life’s hustle.

According to a post from the University of Rochester Medical Center, “keeping a journal helps you create order when your world feels like it’s in chaos.”  It offers a much-needed opportunity to reveal your most private thoughts, hopes, dreams, fears, and feelings.” 

Some emerging thoughts will be immediately joyful, others may be confusing, and others may stir uncomfortable feelings arising from life’s setbacks, failures and disappointments. Allow expression for all of it.

Let what comes to your mind come out in your journal; don’t filter or judge. Just give space for thoughts and emotions to be released so you can process them from a place of self-compassion and self-love.

et what comes to your mind come out in your journal; don’t filter or judge; just give space for thoughts and emotions to be released so you can process them from a place of self-compassion and self-love.

How to Get Started with Journaling for Self-Care

Embarking on your journaling journey requires a bit more than just a pen and paper (or keyboard, if you’re digitally inclined). It’s about creating an environment and embracing a welcoming attitude that promotes openness and reflection. 

There’s no right or wrong way to journal; it’s a personal experience, so how you choose to journal is entirely up to you. 

Here are a few thoughts to consider as you begin or expand your journaling practice:

Choose Your Medium 

Digital or paper? While purists might lean towards the tactile feel of paper  (I’m super fond of beautiful, bound journals), digital journals offer convenience and privacy. Go with what feels right for you.

Create a Heart-Centered Ritual 

Whether it’s a cozy corner of your room or a quiet cafe, find a safe and inviting spot that warms your heart. You may choose to rotate the location where you journal or adopt a single environment that inspires you the most. Consider coupling your journaling with a cup of tea or soft music to make it a comforting ritual.

Set Aside Time

Carve out a specific time of day for journaling; it doesn’t have to be the same time each day, and you don’t have to journal every day. Self-care requires consistent practice, so make yourself a priority by reserving space in your schedule. Morning pages can set a positive tone for your day, while evening entries can be a soothing nightcap for your thoughts.

Five Journaling Methods

There are several ways to get started journaling. Here are five of the most common methods:

Method 1: Gratitude Journaling

Gratitude journaling is like watering your soul with thankfulness, encouraging flowers of joy and contentment to bloom. By focusing on the good, you magnify its light.  As Norman Vicent Peale once said, “The more you practice the art of thankfulness, the more you have to be thankful for.” 

Getting Started:

  • Jot down at least three things you are grateful for today.
  • Elaborate on why these moments were significant to you.

This simple practice can shift your mental focus from what’s lacking to the abundance that surrounds you, nurturing a habit of happiness

                         Related content: How Would 30 Days of Radical Gratitude Change Your Life?

Method 2: Bullet Journaling

With its dots and dashes, bullet journaling is less about the art and more about function. It’s your mental clutter turned into organized lists, your worries and wants for your life neatly cataloged. You can create a bullet journal on your own or purchase a bullet journal kit (example of a bullet journal kit on Amazon).

Setting Up:

  • Use symbols to denote tasks, notes, and events.
  • Create spreads that track your mood, habits, or self-care activities.

This method is about keeping tabs on your day and understanding your patterns and behaviors, offering clarity amidst chaos.

Example of a bullet journal
Example of a bullet journal

Method 3: Free Writing for Emotional Processing and Mental Clarity

Imagine unleashing a torrent of thoughts onto paper, no dams, no barriers. Free writing is a raw, unfiltered expression where your pen races your thoughts in a marathon of mindfulness.

To Begin:

  • Set a timer for 10-15 minutes and write non-stop.
  • Let go of judgments and edits; this is for your eyes only.

This method can be a powerful release, a way to let go of pent-up or recurring difficult emotions and uncover deep layers within you that you may have never realized existed. 

Method 4: Reflective Journaling for Self-Discovery

Reflective journaling is like holding a mirror to your soul, examining your reflections not with criticism but with curiosity. It’s an exploration of your beliefs, experiences, and dreams.

How to Start:

  • Pick a recent event or feeling and dive deep into its effects on you.
  • Ask yourself, “What have I learned?” and “How have I grown?”

This introspective practice fosters growth and cultivates self-awareness, lighting the way to personal development. [Check out these 64 Journal Prompts for Self-Discovery from PsychCentral]

Method 5: Creative Journaling for Stress Relief

When words fall short, let colors and shapes do the talking. Creative journaling is your emotions expressed in art, a visual diary that captures your inner world in hues and strokes.

Kickstarting Your Creativity:

  • Mix mediums—sketch, paint, collage—and let your mood guide your medium.
  • Use prompts like “My day in colors” or “What calm looks like to me” to ignite your imagination.

This method offers a playful escape, a momentary pause from the weight of words, allowing stress to melt into the canvas of your creativity.

Creative Art Journaling Example
Creative Art Journaling Example

Using Journal Prompts

If you’re unsure what to begin writing about, you may want to write using journal prompts.  Believe and Create has a free Happiness Journal that you can download that comes with 30+ journal prompts.  If you’re going to dig deeper into self-discovery, we recommend our e-book, The Self-Awareness & Self-Discovery Journal, available exclusively on Amazon for $7.99

Wishing You Joy on Your Self-Care Journaling Journey!

Adding journaling to your self-care practice is a smart way to prioritize yourself and your needs. Self-care isn’t selfish; it’s essential!

Experiment with the techniques you’ve learned here; mix and match them, and discover what resonates with your soul.

No matter which journaling method you choose—whether through the structured lines of a bullet journal or the free-flowing swirls of a creative diary—journaling can anchor you in the present and remind you of the strength and beauty within.

Wishing you much joy on your journey!

J. Marie Novak, Founder of

J. Marie Novak, Founder of

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