11 Best Books on Confidence

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11 best books on confidenceIf you wish you could be more confident, take heart; you’re not alone.  According to some reports, 50% or more of us suffer from low self-confidence at some point in our lives.  That’s why I’ve created this list of the 11 best books on confidence  … I KNOW people need the help!

For some, the struggle is ongoing. Lack of confidence can impact your career, your relationships, how much money you earn, and your life happiness.  Self-confidence is so important that I decided to compile a list of my favorite 11 books on confidence.  

The books on this list are the very best books for building confidence and ditching self-doubt that I’ve ever read.  And, while I personally recommend each book on this list, I didn’t just build assemble this collection without checking into what others are saying.  These books are also highly rated by thousands of others.  In fact, all together, these books have helped more than a million people build their confidence, and I’m certain they can do the same for you, too.

In the list below, you’ll not only see my top picks for best books, but I’ve also added a handful of quotes as well as a few video clips from each of the authors so that you can get a taste of what they’re all about.  Take your time reviewing this list and see which books resonate with you the most.  

I’ve deliberately offered a wide range of selections, as I know not all books are perfect for all people.  Yet I also know that all of these books offer invaluable advice that will help you build your confidence.  All you need to do to make that happen is to take the lessons you learn to heart.

Happy reading!

11 Best Books for Building Your Self-Confidence

Playing Big is my top pick for confidence-building books because Tara doesn’t allow you to wallow in the surrounding fears and self-esteem issues that often surround a lack of confidence.  Instead, she reveals some of the nonsense you learned from others throughout your life that has given you a lowered sense of self-worth. I’m 100 percent confident you’ll find that many of the voices from your past led you off course. Thankfully you can choose a better way now.

Tara gently walks you through the steps to let the real you shine — the “you” that instinctively already knows that you have so much more to offer the world.  

Playing Big is about confidence and so much more. It’s about living your life your way and not letting yourself or anyone else dull your light ever again.

Get Playing Big now.  Read it, and apply the principles this treasure offers.  You won’t be sorry.

“Feedback doesn’t tell you about yourself. It tells you about the person giving the feedback. In other words, if someone says your work is gorgeous, that just tells you about *their* taste. If you put out a new product and it doesn’t sell at all, that tells you something about what your audience does and doesn’t want. When we look at praise and criticism as information about the people giving it, we tend to get really curious about the feedback, rather than dejected or defensive.” ― Tara Mohr, Playing Big: Find Your Voice, Your Mission, Your Message

I’ve wrestled with self-doubt much of my life, and as I’ve written about on Believe and Create, that sense of self-doubt and low-confidence can take a toll on a person.  In the Confidence Gap, Russ Harris teaches us that instead of trying to overcome fears it’s far better to create a different relationship with them so we can have the confidence to live the life we are imagining. It’s an insightful read that certainly opened my eyes.

“The actions of confidence come first; the feelings of confidence come later. Genuine confidence is not the absence of fear; it is a transformed relationship with fear. Negative thoughts are normal. Don’t fight them; defuse them. Self-acceptance trumps self-esteem.” - Russ Harris

If you want to build your confidence, you need to move beyond the beliefs and habits that are holding you back.  While some “best books on confidence lists” might not think to add The 5 Second Rule to their list, I definitely think that reading it will build your confidence. That’s because confidence often comes from the things we say to ourselves and the behaviors we allow to persist, even though they’re causing us harm.

If you’ve never heard for Mel Robbins or the 5 Second Rule, take a glance at this video below.  Then, go buy the book— it’s a game-changer!

This confidence-building book is a classic that holds up.  Oh boy, does it hold up! If you’ve never read it, add it to your reading list now.  Susan Jeffers teaches you how to stare down the fears that leave you feeling less than confident once and for all.

“The concepts and tools you about to learn [in Face the Fear and Do it Anyway] are meant to be used for a lifetime. Learn them well. And every time a new challenge comes into your life, you need only reach into your ‘toolbox’ and move yourself from the weakest to the strongest part of who you are. As you do, you will be absolutely amazed at the incredible power you hold inside. - Susan Jeffers

Wouldn’t it be wonderful if you could create confidence in any situation?  Author Heather Monahan helps you build your confidence — or rebuild it if you’re dealing with a painful divorce, breakup, unemployment, or any one of a myriad of life’s challenges that tend to knock us down.

What I like most about the Confidence Creator is how Heather’s personal stories bring the lessons to life. The book is insightful, heartwarming, and helpful all at the same time.

“In every moment we are either building our confidence or chipping away at it. The choice is yours.” -Heather Monahan

Unless you’ve been living under a rock, you probably already know who Brené Brown is.  But does the hype about her amazing book Daring Greatly live up to the reality?  In my opinion, yes it does.

No one has a pill or a magic wand that will make you more confident.  Sorry, these just don’t exist. The secret to building your confidence one moment as a time is learning when and where to be vulnerable, and how to do it with a high sense of self intact.  That’s exactly what you’ll learn when you read this book.  

By the way, for a quick refresher of just how amazing  Brené Brown, which this YouTube video.

Want to have a better career?  More success?  Don’t want to work for years to make this happen?  Then you’ll want to read Step Up.  This book is devoted to things you can do to boost your confidence and success in your career, so it has a narrower focus than other books on this list.  

What I like most about Step Up is how practical it is.  It offers simple yet career-elevating advice and “career workouts” that can be done in mere minutes a day. If you struggle with confidence at work, this book is for you.

“Confidence is one of those big emotional subjects that affects everyone at some stage in their lives. We’ve certainly both felt insecure at the wrong career moments and have turned down big opportunities for fear of messing things up somehow. And yet, confidence isn’t a personality trait, it’s a state of mind – which means we can all learn the tricks to feeling and appearing more confident.” - excerpt from the Step Up Blog.

The simple act of changing your self-talk can have a tremendous impact on boosting your confidence.  While the act simple, releasing long-held self-limiting beliefs isn’t always that easy.

In this book from Shad Helmstetter coaches you through the process of identifying which self-talk is harming you, how to identify it when it’s happening, and how to change it into self-talk that increases your confidence and overall happiness.  

You’ll learn all about the five levels of self-talk so you can take control of your life and start feeling bolder and better about yourself and your life every day.

“[In telling ourselves we’re not confident] we are trying to force the brain to do something that it has not been programmed to do. The brain simply believes what you tell it the most. And what you tell it about you it will create. It has no choice.” - Shad Helmstetter

If you want to become more confident, then you have to start having a higher opinion of yourself. Jen Sincero certainly hit a home-run when she titled her book You Are a Badass — many people want to feel this way about themselves, but sadly, many of us do not.

If you’re ready to lead your life as a badass instead of full of self-doubt and low confidence, then get yourself a copy of You Are a Badass It’s fun and informative.  It also contains so many deep truths that it will blow your mind with how much it resonates with you and your life.

“You are perfect. To think anything less is as pointless as a river thinking that it’s got too many curves or that it moves too slowly or that its rapids are too rapid. ...You’re on a journey with no defined beginning, middle, or end. There are no wrong twists and turns. There is just being. And your job is to be as you as you can be. ... Do not deny the world its one and only chance to bask in your brilliance.” - Jen Sincero

If you love Jen Sincero's work, and you want to have a little extra reminder of just how amazing you are, I recommend buying the Litte Box of Badass: Embrace Your Awesomeness with Style

How much stress do you think you have low or wavering confidence brings into your life?  The truth is, it brings a lot of stress and anxiety to most of us.  Worse, it keeps us from living the lives we dream of living.  In this book from positive psychology expert Louisa Jewell, you’ll learn proven formulas for wiring your brain for the kind of confidence that will help you build a life you truly love.  

“This book [Wire Your Brain for Confidence] is about building the kind of confidence that leaves you unwavering in your belief in yourself and the life you want to live … It’s about finding that peaceful calm and letting go of the anxiety of stress.” - Louisa Jewell

The Little Book of Confidence is part of Susan’s Jeffers’ “Little Books” series. While this book is small in size, it’s packed with simple wisdom and insights that will inspire you to live more confidently every single day.  And since Susan Jeffers is widely considered one of the top authorities on the subject of confidence, it’s a must-have book for your collection.

“Drown out the chatterbox! It’s so simple. To quiet the Chatterbox, commit to replacing it with the voice of the Higher Self which always tells you that you are good enough and pulls you up into the best of who you are.” -Susan Jeffers

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